Welcome to MickSauce Coaching, where meaningful and intentional love awaits. Robert Mickens and Denise Saucedo here, sharing our journey of growth from painful, unfulfilling relationships to finding something deep, transcending, peaceful & exquisite.
Both of us were on healing journeys from previous relationships when fate brought us together. It wasn't the perfect love story. It was raw, real, downright ugly and heartbreaking at times. Most would have said to walk away. But when a love like this shows up. All you can do is listen to your heart and know that it's meant to be.
I was seeking my authentic self after a depleting breakup. I was still in love with that person when Robert showed up. I even told him so. And I was such a mess with trying to get over that person by getting under someone else (you know the easy way out - the thing all your friends tell you to do--- don't listen to them! It's not the answer! It's just a bandaid to the real issue at hand.)
I asked him to be patient with me as I navigated through the pain and trauma that relationship caused me. I was exploring personal coaching, meditation, hypnotherapy, and studying childhood trauma to understand my subconscious patterns & partner choices.
Meanwhile, Robert was navigating a separation with his wife at the time. This was extremely rough for the both of us. I had to take a back seat to my own feelings and ego to help him through the process. And there were times when I wanted to throw in the towel.... trust me. But through it all we held on to the intentional love we knew existed within us both. And we pushed through the pain and healing. And never did we ever walk away from one another. No matter how hard it got.
He delved deep into studying his family of origin & discovered how that played a huge part in his partner choices. He has been studying his family dynamics since his first year in college. And when I say study... I mean STUDY. He has put thousands of hours of time into his healing and growing process.
Both of us combined have over 50 years of personal development knowledge under our belt.
We connected instantly, realizing our shared dreams of a relationship were built on honesty, transparency and mutual respect. Our standards were high, and we refused to settle. The quest for perfect love tested our faith, until we opened our hearts and embraced the belief that genuine love truly does exist when BOTH people are putting in the inner work and applying knowledge to action.
Love, we discovered, is not without its challenges. With Robert’s two failed marriages & me never being married but having three failed long term relationships behind us, we learned that every connection serves a purpose in our personal growth.
We must be self-aware and acknowledge what needs to be healed from within in order to bring our full selves to the relationship. Without self-awareness we are living at the mercy of our triggers. And living on autopilot can dictate the relationship unknowingly.
Patience, sacrifice, and understanding are essential, with BOTH partners putting in EQUAL effort.
At MickSauce, we'll teach you how to express love through actions and intention, guiding you to manifest the love you desire and deserve. Healing from past trauma is crucial to nurturing your current and future relationships.
Our experiences have humbled us, taking almost 50 combined years to find the recipe for success. Now, we offer a rewarding program, from our hearts to yours. We are transitioning from our 1 on 1 coaching to an online program that you can access at your leisure.
And we are releasing Denise GPT (D-GPT) to the world here in February. You don't want to miss this!!! D- GPT is your 24/7 life coach who will be there at the touch of a fingertip. You can ask her things like....
"What are 10 things I can implement today into my relationship to make it more meaningful?"
"Denise I have an issue with communicating effectively with my partner, do you have any suggestions for me to learn how to speak kindly to my partner, without getting defensive or disrespectful?"
"Do you have any suggestions for romantic date nights in Phoenix, AZ?"
"Can you give me 5 examples of how I can show up for myself in 2024?"
And so much more... this is just the beginning. My honey cloned me y'all!!!!!! Image having access to me at all times! He's brilliant isn't he? I always say.... everyone needs a Robert in their life. And I don't say this lightly. I truly mean it. You deserve someone who truly listens to you, hears you, sees you, learns you, discovers you, cherishes you, loves you unconditionally.
That person is out there. I promise. And we are here to show you how to prepare for that relationship when it walks in the door. Or for those currently in marriages we will be there to navigate your love story.
Join us on this journey, where love transcends mediocrity. You are deserving of this transformative love, & we're here to walk beside you. Let's create a life where love is intentional & extraordinary.